From a very early stage in my sexual development, I knew that when I got serious about boys I should be a fellatiator. (MS Word is angrily insisting that “fellatiator” is not a word, but if Colbert is allowed “truthiness” as his defining characteristic then I can take fellatiator as mine.) Between the ages of
What is it that makes a cum facial so hot? I’ve never thought of the facial as a degrading act. To me everything leading up to the moment I see cum running down a woman’s face, dripping off her lips and chin, is an incredibly intense sexual experience. The anticipation of knowing she will allow
I’m a psychologist by trade, but I’m far from your mainstream therapist, and I’m certainly not a Freudian—although to be fair, in spite of the faults we can find today in a lot of his theories about the psyche, the guy did open the door to self-reflection, and that can’t ever be a bad thing.
Have I ever told you how much I love cocks…uh, I mean men? Oh, yes I love being a woman. LOVE it. Taking off from my previous essay, it seems I may have neglected to state the fact that I love to suck cock. Yes, sir that sounds like an oral fixation to me! There
I am openly questionable about who is better performers when it comes to oral sex. Male or female? Gay or straight? I try not to question the superiority of one gender or another, but this is one area where there appears that some truth lies over who gives better head. I am not, and never
I got an interesting bit of feedback from a reader the other day: “Great post, but you can’t call it a blowjob if she uses her hands. If the hands are involved, it’s called a handjob – that’s cheating! Blowjobs are all mouth and nothing but the mouth…” Huh! Really? Who knew? And how come
My husband and I have been together twelve years and married nine. We have two children and for most of the past ten years I have been primarily a stay at home housewife and mother. I’ve never considered myself sheltered by any means and have always assumed that I was quite normal and that my
In their relationships with one another, men are hierarchical. They insist upon levels of status and power. There cannot be a general without a private, nor can there be a king without a peasant. Not only does every thing have, and belong to, its properly appointed place, but every man (and woman) does as well.
I guess you could say I have been lucky. I have always lived near an adult bookstore with glory hole booths in the back. As often as not, when I visit one, I am disappointed. It seems that most of the guys who go there are there for the same reason I am; to suck
It sometimes bothers me how people can be so judgmental of other people, often without really knowing anything about the topic. Anal sex tends to be high on that list… from all the stories online, not to mention everything you see on TV, you think that it would be a little bit more acceptable… instead,
In previous posts, I have focused my thoughts on sodomy on the “active,” or penetrative, participant, rather than on the “passive,” or penetrated, participant, since it takes two to tango, it seems only appropriate to consider the latter as well as the former, and this post, hopefully, will rectify this omission. When I write about
First comes the attraction, which, for many, is enough in itself, and need not occasion understanding. However, thinking men and women are wont to know the wherefores of attraction. They’re apt to want to know why they’re attracted to eyes, lips, breasts, legs, buttocks, and genitals. I’m an ass man myself. Second place among milady’s
To be fucked in the ass, whether willingly or otherwise, and whether one is female or not, is associated, for many, with not only submission, but also with humiliation and degradation. The rectum, the anus, and even the buttocks are associated with the elimination of feces, or bodily wastes. From early ages, we are taught
It is a belief of mine that anal sex and making love just don’t coexist. Don’t get me wrong I am not saying I don’t like taking my cock and sliding it up my wife’s Hershey highway but every time we have had anal it is just about pure animal lust. Of course when doing
I’ve never tried anal sex before. It never appealed to me. Actually, I never have given it much thought. I am a bit embarrassed to admit it, but I have never even had sex doggie style either. Yes, I realize that doggie style sex is an overwhelming favorite for hordes of people but not for